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    Quick sex

     

    Everybody seem to be obsessed by different sex techniques, all that “how to” or “tips to”, but how about impulsiveness and spontaneity. Have we lost it? The sex essence, impulsive desire, passionate sex, when both of you are so horny and want it now. Seem like we forgot about the pleasure of spontaneous quickie. Most of us prefer to bring books and magazines to their bedrooms and make a kind of sex seminar instead of simply having pleasure and enjoying. Quickie doesn’t mean bad sex, or not quality sex. It’s just the variant of it and having sex in a forbidden place or situation may actually make both or you closer, improve your relationships. It’s like sharing with your partner something nobody else can share and creating a more tight intimate connection between the two of you. It’s like having a secret no one but you two will ever know. And all these make this experience really exciting. Additional dose of adrenaline is added by the thought of being discovered while having quickie in a public place. A single thought of having sex at a party, at a restaurant’s restroom, at the office, at the stares, at a public park can be very arousing and stimulating. The naughtiness of the situation will wind up both of you and lead to a very passionate and delicious sex, which actually can be much better than the common sexual intercourse you have in your beds. What about the foreplay, the importance of which was discussed and highlighted in hundreds of articles and books on sexology? Skip it, the adrenaline in your blood will compensate for any foreplay. Quickie sex is also about experimenting. Just imagine what exotic and awkward position you will have to invent while having sex in, let's say, not very comfortable position. It's a good chance to apply your sex creativeness and sex fantasies in real. Besides, the view of your partially dressed partner is very sexy. Picture your lover held against the wall, or bend over the stares with her breasts outside the bra, her knickers around her knees, it can easily be an erotic fantasy not least. So, what holds you back from having quickies? Some people think that by showing their partner that they want a quick sex they offend them in some way. But in fact, if you’re horny and lusting for your partner, wanting a quick sex will only assure your partner that you still fancy him/her. The most amazing thing about quickie is freedom in everything. There is no right place or time for quickie. It's only up to you and your imagination not any circumstances. Any circumstance doesn’t matter if you want it now, and if you want it badly. No doubt you will find both place and time, as there is variety to choose between. Look around how many options you have: office table, garden hedge, even toilet will do if you're really desperate. Keep your feelings fresh and experiment with them. Enjoy, just try not to hurt the esthetic feelings of unwilling witnesses.

         
    Rate your sex drive how it effects your relationships

     

    This small questionnaire will only take a few moments. Try to answer the questions as honestly as you can, after all only you have access to the answers. Just make a note of your answers, then calculate your scoring; then you'll find out how your sex drive is effecting your relationships! Q1. How often do you have sex with your partner? a) everyday. b) 2 or 3 times a week. c) 2 or 3 times a month. d) Less. Q2. How often do you have sex with someone other than your partner? a) everyday. b) 1 or 2 times a week. c) occasionally. d) Never. Q3. How often do you think about having sex? a) everyday. b) 2 or 3 times a week. c) 2 or 3 times a month. d) Less. Q4. How often do you masturbate? a) everyday. b) 2 or 3 times a week. c) 2 or 3 times a month. d) Less. Q5. When having sex with your partner, do you ever use Sex Toys? a) yes, a lot. b) yes, occasionally. c) I've tried it. d) Never. Q6. When masturbating, do you ever use Sex Toys? a) yes, a lot. b) yes, occasionally. c) I've tried it. d) Never. Q7. Do you ever role-play when having sex, i. e. dressing up? a) yes, a lot. b) yes, occasionally. c) I've tried it. d) Never. In this segment, mark ALL the answers that apply! Q8. What events are most likely to turn you on? a) watching an x-rated movie (with your partner or on your own). b) watching the Saturday Night premier, with the love scenes. c) waking up/going to bed next to your partner d) romantic dinner / evening for the two of you. Q9. Where have you had sex? a) in the bedroom b) all over the house c) in the garden d) in a public place Q10. What fantasies have you fulfilled? a) yours b) your partners c) ones that you saw in an x-rated movie or magazine d) none SCORING: Just tally the all the values beside the answers that you have selected; remember that questions 8, 9 and 10 may have multiple answers. Q1. a)3 b)2 c)1 d)0 Q2. a)3 b)2 c)1 d)0 Q3. a)3 b)2 c)1 d)0 Q4. a)3 b)2 c)1 d)0 Q5. a)3 b)2 c)1 d)0 Q6. a)3 b)2 c)1 d)0 Q7. a)3 b)2 c)1 d)0 Q8. a)1 b)1 c)1 d)1 Q9. a)1 b)1 c)1 d)1 Q10. a)1 b)1 c)1 d)1 INTERPRETING YOUR SCORE: IF YOU SCORE TOTAL IS BETWEEN 0 and 11. You have a very low sex drive. This may have a negative effect on your relationships. I know that a healthy relationship is not based on sex, they are based on trust, love, and communication. However intimacy leads to intimacy; what I mean is that there are different forms of intimacy, touch intimacy (non sexual, like hugs, caress, holding hands, massage, etc.), verbal intimacy and sexual intimacy. When you are have sexual intimacy with your partner you are laying the paving stones, for a more intimate relationship. You will have to try and loose some of your inhibitions allowing your partner the key, or at least lending him the key more often. You can obtain tutorial books and DVD's on learning how to become more intimate with your partner. IF YOU SCORE TOTAL IS BETWEEN 12 and 22. You have a perfectly healthy and normal sex drive. This will have a positive effect on your relationships. Your sexual intimacy will lead to other forms of intimacy with your partner, ultimately taking you to the next level. IF YOU SCORE TOTAL IS BETWEEN23 and 33. You have a high sex drive. This may have a negative effect on any relationships you have. You have to balance all the different aspects of intimacy; what I mean is that there are different forms of intimacy, touch intimacy (non-sexual, like hugs, caress, holding hands, massage, etc.), verbal intimacy and sexual intimacy. If you focus on just one, your relationships will struggle to get to next level. you need to understand that there are more to relationships than just sex. What I recommend is more masturbating to cure your urge so that you can focus on balancing intimacy types to try to take you to deeper relationship that is more meaningful. You can use sex toys for more satisfying masturbation!

         
    Renai games romance and sex in virtual reality

     

    : Renai which means ‘romantic game’ is an interactive computer game based on themes of love and sex. The protagonist could be a male or female, and various controls allow manipulation of the 3D environment and the characters. These are popularly called dating sims or visual novels. A visual novel presents pictures with text at the bottom and deals with romantic themes. Dating sim games allow more interaction with event planning. Artificial Girl 2, or Jinkou Shojo 2, is a three dimensional interactive game featuring a single girl and a boy. The object of the game would be revealed later, but the graphics are said to be a bit poor. The virtual environment consists of natural surroundings with woods and hills as the backdrop. There is an option to keep the background blank, the reason for which is explained below. The controls allow the user to manipulate various aspects of the game. These include the physical features of the girl, walking movements, locations, etc. At first it may seem like a silly, romantic game where you take the girl for a walk through the woods, or kiss her on top of a hill. The ‘advanced’ features of the game would however reveal the real objective of the game – to have 3D sex with the animated girl, and watch it from various angles. That is why the background can be blanked if required! There are other features of the game that could be pleasing to the user – the ability to choose the surroundings and see the characters take a walk, sit together, hold hands, and kiss. What can we make of Renai games? The fantasy aspect of the game is quite prominent. The themes are libidinous. The content is more of a play with imagination. For more information on Renai games visit - Hentai games

         
    Rubber clothing a beginners guide

     

    It's an intriguing question, why wear rubber? First of all, I guess it's good to start with what is rubber? Rubber is a natural substance, made from the sap of the rubber tree. It's collected, and treated, rolled flat into sheets and then "vulcanised" which basicly means they add sulphur and cook it in an oven! Why make clothing from it? Well, why not! It's just like any other material, it can be sewn, but more likely it's glued together to make garments. The glues used are very strong, as strong as the material it's bonding together. Rubber used to be seen as an "underground" material to make clothes from, for fetishists only really, but now it's getting more mainstream, it's commonly used in Film and TV to either convey "technology"or "futurism" or even "fetishism". An example of rubber being used in films extensively would be The Matrix Trilogy. Most of Trinity's clothing in that was made by Reactor Rubberwear ( rubber. au) as a lot of the Matrix was actually filmed in Australia. So come on, why would I wear it? Because it feels nice, it makes you look sexy, and pulls you in! Well those aren't the only reasons, but they're good ones! If you're just thinking about getting into rubber, it might be an idea to start with something easy, and small, like Latex Shorts or a Rubber Bikini, these are easy to slip into and you'll know what it feels like to wear it, then move onto something a bit bigger and better! If you've never tried it before, you must also be aware that you have to use some kind of 'lubricant' to get into rubber, usually sprinkling the inside with talcum powder will do the job. Once it's on, you have to give it a nice shine with some latex shine spray. Spray it direct into a cloth and wipe over the rubber with the cloth (saves getting shine spray everywhere!), now your latex is looking shiny and you'll be looking sexy! Once you've got into this rubber thing, you can start looking at other garments such as catsuits, these are really sexy, they cover you from next to toe in rubber, and look like a second skin, basicly you can reveal everything without revealing everything, and be covered in your favorite material. They come in a variety of styles, can come with feet or no feet, back zip or front zip, the choice is yours! They can be tricky to get on (use plenty of talc), but once on you'll feel really sexy!

         
    Sacred sex

     

    Sex is what brought us here. Without sex, you and I won't be here. There is nothing cheap or dirty about sex. It is the attitude towards sex that makes it egrading, sinful , dirty or beautiful and precious. It fulfills the function of procreation, it could also be a means to commit the most heinous crime. It is important not only to be aware of our sexuality, we need to acknowledge its importance as a factor for a balanced life. It is the fire that keeps the flames of romance aglow, the strong fiber that keeps a relationship together against all odds, it is refreshing, it is healing. Respect for sex add meaning to our human existence and relationships. We treat with reverence those things we hold dear to our hearts. Activities that we enjoy leaves us with that sense of accomplishment, of satisfaction, and makes us feel good. Music is considered the language of the soul. Who does not enjoy music? It is one of the great pleasures mankind has discovered. There are as many tunes, songs and music as there are performers, composers and song writers. Sex is an integral part of human existence. The expression of sex has many faces, strikes many chords, creates a variety of tempo, of harmony or dis-harmony. Who does not admire beautiful and awesome surroundings; seek and welcome serenity and tranquility, away from the frenzy of the world. Yes, expression and wholesome atmosphere create and inspire the moment for the ultimate experience of Sacred Sex. We do not subscribe to the same type of music, but generally, there must be something in the music that stirs the soul; a melody that promotes a certain mood, a tune that softens or excites the psyche. Listening to music is soothing, it is inspiring, it quietens a cluttered mind. There is no human activity that can compare to sex that can elevate the soul, the human spirit to ecstasy, out of the physical realm into a world only the two physical bodies can experience. No, it is the "quickie", not the one in the backseat, or any isolated dim spot that is available at the moment. If you've been to a concert, a recital , attended a symphony, you do not just "run"into these events. Sex is like attending one of these events - to fully enjoy it, you set aside the time , the resources needed , you plan the when and the how will naturally follow. It is not an event you attend to everyday. It is a special occasion that you look forward to with anticipation. Of course, spontaneity adds pizzazz. Why not a sacred time for sacred sex? Anyone who is interested to learn more about the "How to", the resources are limitless - read up on Tantric Sex, get a copy of the Kama Sutra. But, no matter how much information you read on sex, if the attitude to elevate it to something sacred is not there, it would be difficult to experience the bliss, the ecstasy and the sense of fulfillment only sacred sex can offer. Expression is a very personal matter, so is the experience. There is music, and there is music. Some people enjoy the singer who belts out the words, in constant gyration or movement. They see the singer, do they hear the song? There are others who are quite content with the blues, or country tempo, some go for ballads, but, there is always room for the appreciation of the music of the great masters, do not mistake it for the elevator music..Many of the great music have "popular hits" versions that appeal to most. Take Beethoven's Fifth, Chopin's Nocturne in B Flat ( To Love Again), Mozart's Eich Nacht Music ( Twinlke, Twinkle Little Star) Sacred sex is like attending a symphony - the orchestra and all its sections play their part - the percussion, the wind instruments, the strings, the woodwind, the drums and cymbals and other sections that I miss. What does these have to do with sex? When elevated to the highest form that it can be, every single part of the human body can be tuned in like the sections of the orchestra, to produce that haunting, enjoyable , uplifting and satisfying music. Listen to some good music, it's not all one beat, one, chord, one tone. Observe the adagio, enjoy the cantabile, the sweetness of the dolce, then get exhilarated as the orchestra progresses to forte, fortissimo, con anima, then.. it starts to slow down, go into ritartando, some endings maybe real soft or bombastic, but always passionate. Notice that after each performance of the symphony, are seconds of quiet, when you hear not a sound, until the maestro takes his bow. Two souls are able to reach out into the depths of each other's being during moments of intimacy. It is difficult to interpret most work of art, and feel the passion of the artist, understand what was on his mind while creating his work. But music is different. The performer has the freedom to express the inner stirrings within the soul, with passion that radiates through the performance, filters to the spectators, and enjoy the transformation to a different world and savor the peace within the soul . In sacred sex, it helps to understand the human anatomy, to fine tune all these parts, yes, from head to toe, to stir the most passionate, ecstatic and blissful act. When two souls are able to reach this state of oneness, savor it, and respect it…that is sacred sex.

         
    Searching for pleasure...some tips on safe and easy adult shopping

     

    Before the internet era it was very hard to find a way to shop for intimacy products, such as provocative lingerie, sex toys, lubricants and other adult items. Not many people were comfortable with choosing a personal product in regular stores. Besides, it is not really easy to ask store’s sales assistant a question about characteristics of the particular product. It’s all has changed nowadays. Shopping for the adult products has never been easier. Today you can browse through the thousands of items, comparing characteristics, prices and looking for the best choice. But is it really easy now to find exactly what you are looking for, receive it discretely and in timely manner? We would like to offer you some helpful tips on adult online shopping. 1. Start from the general information within the product category. Let’s say you are looking for a vibrator. It is easy to be lost – so many different types, colors, styles and prices! However, you can find some educational sites as well as web forums on this subject. You will explore all different kinds of vibrators, their functions, and a feedback from other people who bought it. A piece of advice from somebody with a personal experience might help you to decide what exactly will be great for your pleasure. 2. Once you decided on a product, go ahead and browse through online “shelves”. There are so many online adult stores on the web. Here is a tip – choose ones that have a nice and clean layout, a lot of info on each product and good pictures so you can see it in details. In real world you would definitely prefer to shop in a clean and friendly atmosphere, why would you change your preferences? Don’t be shy to ask questions – send them via e-mail. Here you don’t have to deal with a rude sales person making silly jokes about your choice… 3. Before placing your order go back to the search engine and enter the exact name of the product you are going to buy. You’ll be surprised – some stores might have the same item for less! Not talking about free shipping, spring sale and many other offers that they might have for you…don’t hurry, shop around! 4. You finally found a great deal. Congratulations! Check Company’s Shipping Policy and Return/ Refund Policy to make sure you agree with their terms. Everything is fine? Just complete your checkout process and wait for your item to arrive. But be careful with clicking banners and links at the adult web store. Unfortunately, adult industry is not always narrow. You can be involved in purchasing services you’ve never ordered and receiving bill for whatever you’ve never wanted. It is also the biggest source of scam and computer viruses. So be careful! Adult shopping can definitely be a great experience if you shop in a right place. It will help you to spice up your sexual life, to enhance your intimate relationship and to discover new levels of pleasure and satisfaction. You can also shop together with your partner, it will make shopping more fun for both of you.

         
    Seven ways to revitalise your relationship with your woman

     

    Has your relationship run out of steam? Do you wish to go back to the loving and excitement of your early times together? Well you can! The idea is to be different in a romantic way. 1) Unless your woman is very unusual, flowers make all the difference. Not just any flowers, red roses symbolise passion and romance. Bring a lovely bunch of roses and toss flower heads into a fragrantly scented bath for a romantic bath time. 2) Share a shower and cover each other in slippery soap, use the opportunity to caress her body and admire it. Then rub your slippery body against hers to drive her wild. 3) Make time for a weekend break in the romantic cities of Amsterdam, New York or Paris. If the budget is tight, Brighton or other seaside resorts can be just as much fun. 4) Start really listening to your partner. Woman usually love to talk and if you listen carfully you will learn a lot about her needs and desires. As a bonus she will love you for listening. 5) Try to be happier in a spontaneous way. Many men have difficulty being spontaneous, but if you can prove to your partner that being in her company makes you happy she will respond and feel happier herself. Don't make it elaborate. For instance while out for a walk, just suddenly grab her hand and start skipping or running. 6) Every woman likes to be complimented - not only on her appearance but also her manner or a particularly good meal she has made an effort to cook for you. Try anything you can think of that will boost her ego and give her confidence. 7) Show her you think about her pleasure - buy her a sex toy or some sexy lingerie, or if she likes role play, a sexy outfit. These seven ideas will help you make a great start. Of course there are many other ways to revitalise a relationship.

         
    Sex the liberated women

     

    Hopefully gone are the days of women being shy about sex… & playing or experimenting with sex toys. I know this does not account for all, but all in all, women seem more comfortable with sex & talking about sex. TV programs & women’s magazines are testament to this sexual liberation. Along side this, thankfully couples are experimenting & exploring beyond the basics. With this era of liberation comes a wide variety of products, both practical & experimental. Women are having lingerie parties at which they can view & touch various sex toys. Sex toys can function as a liberating force in themselves, by encouraging experimentation either by the solo player or couples. The vibrator is no longer seen as a substitute “for the real thing”. It is what it is …an accessory or enhancement for one & all to explore with. The opportunities are as limited as the imagination. If folks are liberated in private, but not quite ready to announce to the world that they have or want a new vibrator… then the wonderful world of the internet provides a wide spectrum of resources, in the form of online stores to purchase the product of your fantasies or if you are already a seasoned toy owner… your essentials. You never know what you might find to take your fancy… new products come out all the time. There are adult games, bondage kits, outfits, the list is extensive. For a marital aid or just for fun, there is something for most. The beauty of online purchase is that even the shyest of buyer, need not worry… most sites promise that goods arrive in discreet packaging & your private life remains private. Happy Exploring

         
    Sex love and poly behavioral addiction

     

    Proposing a New Diagnosis and Theory for Patients with Multiple Addictions By James Slobodzien, Psy. D., CSAC Experts in the field of addictions are presently purporting that between 3 and 6 percent of the world’s population (193 to 386 million people) are presently affected by a sexual dependency or compulsivity (Carnes, 2005). Sexual dependency is a diagnosable and treatable disease, which today is generally, regarded in about the same way that alcoholism and drug addiction (chemical dependency) was regarded 40 years ago. Even so, there still exists a wide range of understandable misunderstandings about compulsive sexual acting out, created out of ignorance about the nature of sexual addiction, and supported and perpetuated by the multibillion dollar pornography industry. Sexual Dependency - is a global term that covers a wide range of maladaptive and self-defeating behavior patterns and relationships such as: 1. Love Addiction – a disorder in which individuals repeatedly become involved in enmeshed, intense, codependent relationships, even when those relationships or partners are destructive; 2. Romance Addiction - a disorder in which individuals become obsessed with the intrigue and the pursuit of romance and thrive on the thrill of the chase, but find it impossible to sustain a committed, intimate relationship with another person; 3. Sexual Anorexia – a disorder in which individuals become dominated and obsessed with the emotional, physical, and mental task of avoiding sex; and 4. Sex Addiction – a disorder in which individuals become obsessed with sexually-related, compulsive self-defeating maladaptive behavior. But can one really be addicted to love as the popular 80’s song proclaims? In a recent research study, (Aron, A. 2005) published in the June issue of the Journal of Neurophysiology, researchers used functional MRI to watch the real-time brain activity of 17 college students (10 women, seven men), all of whom were in the early weeks or months of new love. These researchers concluded that, love may vie for the same real estate in the brain as drug addiction. “Early love, rooted as it is in the caudate nucleus, is all about addiction.” "It is a drug addiction." "It's certainly got some of the main characteristics of drug addiction -- as with drugs, once you fall in love you need that person more and more, so much so that, after a while, you have to marry them. There are other things, too -- real dependence, personality changes, withdrawal symptoms." “And just like the need for cocaine or heroin, love can make people do crazy, sometimes dangerous things.” According to Aron (2005), the findings help explain instances where people fall in love with people they aren’t even sexually attracted to; or why others can feel equally strong, sudden emotion for a newborn child or even God. So does this mean that all people who are newly in love have an addiction? Are all men who look at pornography addicted? Are all women who read romance novels addicted? Are all people who avoid sex considered sexual anorexics? No, no, no, and no. Then how can we differentiate between addiction and healthy relationships? Like other forms of addictive diseases and lifestyle disorders such as chemical dependency, pathological gambling, eating disorders, and religious addiction - Sexual dependency is characterized by an addictive cycle of: 1. Obsession or preoccupation; 2. Ritualization; 3pulsive behaviors; 4. Loss of control and despair; and 5. Shame and guilt that perpetuates a maladaptive belief system of impaired thinking and unmanageability. Typically, sexual addictive patterns are considered pathological problems when issues concerning sexual behaviors become the focus of life, causing feelings of shame, guilt, and embarrassment with related symptoms of depression and anxiety that cause significant maladaptive social and/ or occupational impairment in functioning. Addicts don’t use sex for affection or recreation, but for the management of anxiety and/ or emotional pain. We must consider that some people develop dependencies on certain life-functioning activities such as sex that can be just as life threatening as drug addiction and just as socially and psychologically damaging as alcoholism. Sexual addiction takes many forms with various levels of severity to include: 1. Controversial behaviors (obsessions with pornography, and sex with strangers to engaging in cyber-sex); 2. Unacceptable behaviors (exhibitionism, voyeurism, indecent phone calls); and 3. Profound Sex offender behaviors (rape, incest, and child molestation). Though solitary forms of this addiction may not be overtly risky, they can be part of a pattern of distorted thinking and identity conflict that can escalate to involve harming the self and others. An example of a Sexual Disorder (NOS) or Not Otherwise Specified in the DSM-IV-TR, (2000) includes: distress about a pattern of repeated sexual relationships involving a succession of lovers who are experienced by an individual only as things to be used. (It should be noted that the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders has never used the word “addiction” to describe any of its disorders). The defining elements of this kind of addiction are its secrecy and escalating nature, often resulting in diminished judgment and self-control (Carnes, 1994). Brief History of Sex Addiction In 1976, a suburban hospital administrator asked Dr. Patrick Carnes to start an experimental program for chemically dependent families. The theoretical constructs of the program originated in general systems theory, especially as it applied to families and the 12-steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. One of the many factors which stood out from a family perspective was that the addictive compulsivity had many forms other than alcohol and drug abuse including overeating, gambling, shoplifting, and sexuality. Members of groups like Overeaters Anonymous and Gamblers Anonymous had already pioneered in applying the 12-steps to other addictions so the Family Renewal Center extended its programming based on the 12-steps, to sexual addiction. In 1983, Dr. Patrick Carnes formally introduced the concept of sexual addiction to the world in a text entitled “Out of the Shadows.” Since then the field of sexual addiction and compulsive sexual behavior has developed dramatically. Terms such as addiction, compulsivity, hyper-sexuality, and “Don Juanism,” all have been used to describe what generically could be called "out of control sexual behavior." Regardless of its name, clinicians from all fields agree that a syndrome exists in which individuals have a sense that they have lost control over their sexual behavior. According to the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH), sexual addiction is a persistent and escalating pattern or patterns of sexual behaviors acted out despite increasingly negative consequences to self or others. The fundamental nature of all addiction is the addicts' experience of helplessness and powerlessness over an obsessive-compulsive behavior, resulting in their lives becoming unmanageable. The addict may be out of control. They may experience extreme emotional pain and shame. They may repeatedly fail to control their behavior. They may suffer one or more of the following consequences of an unmanageable lifestyle: a deterioration of some or all supportive relationships; difficulties with work, financial troubles; and physical, mental, and/ or emotional exhaustion which sometimes leads to psychiatric problems and hospitalization. Addictions tend to arise from the same backgrounds: families with co-dependency including multiple addictions; lack of effective parenting; and other forms of physical, emotional and sexual trauma in childhood. The Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH, 2005) report that the symptoms of sexual compulsivity often accompany other addictive behaviors: Alcohol and Drug Addiction – Alcohol and drugs alter libido, enhancing it early in drug addiction and inhibiting it later. There is a pattern in cocaine addiction of selling sexual favors for cocaine. As the cost of drug addiction increases, the drug addict usually can't afford the drug from ordinary job income, and must resort to (either/or) stealing, drug dealing or prostitution to support their habit. Alcohol and many drugs cause blackouts or amnesia during the drug using experience, and if sex is coupled with that drug using experience then the details of the sexual experience may not be remembered. Food Addiction - Sexual anorexia or pathological self-denial of healthy sex is a frequent accompaniment of overeating and anorexia nervosa. Pathological Gambling - The lifestyle of the gambler often includes hyper-sexuality, where both compulsions feed the false sense of self-esteem of the addict. Religious Addiction - Compulsive religiosity sometimes accompanies sexual addiction as the sex addict is seeking religion to lessen guilt and shame. The beginnings of compulsive religiosity may signal the onset of a period of sexual anorexia. Multiple Addictions Since it is impossible to expect treatment for one addiction to be beneficial when other addictions co-exist, the initial therapeutic intervention for any addiction needs to include an assessment for other addictions. National surveys revealed that a very high correlation exists between sexual addiction and other substance abuse and behavioral addictions. Sexual addicts who have reported experiencing multiple addictions include sexual addiction and: * Chemical dependency (42%) * Eating disorder (38%) * Compulsive working (28%) * Compulsive spending (26%) * Compulsive gambling (5%) * Poor Prognosis We have come to realize today more than any other time in history that the treatment of lifestyle diseases and addictions are often a difficult and frustrating task for all concerned. Repeated failures abound with all of the addictions, even with utilizing the most effective treatment strategies. But why do 47% of patients treated in private addiction treatment programs (for example) relapse within the first year following treatment (Gorski, T., 2001)? Have addiction specialists become conditioned to accept failure as the norm? There are many reasons for this poor prognosis. Some would proclaim that addictions are psychosomatically - induced and maintained in a semi-balanced force field of driving and restraining multidimensional forces. Others would say that failures are due simply to a lack of self-motivation or will power. Most would agree that lifestyle behavioral addictions are serious health risks that deserve our attention, but could it possibly be that patients with multiple addictions are being under diagnosed (with a single dependence) simply due to a lack of diagnostic tools and resources that are incapable of resolving the complexity of assessing and treating a patient with multiple addictions? Diagnostic Delineation Thus far, the DSM-IV-TR has not delineated a diagnosis for the complexity of multiple behavioral and substance addictions. It has reserved the Poly-substance Dependence diagnosis for a person who is repeatedly using at least three groups of substances during the same 12-month period, but the criteria for this diagnosis do not involve any behavioral addiction symptoms. In the Psychological Factors Affecting Medical Condition’s section (DSM-IV-TR, 2000); maladaptive health behaviors (e. g., unsafe sexual practices, excessive alcohol, drug use, and over eating, etc.) may be listed on Axis I, only if they are significantly affecting the course of treatment of a medical or mental condition. Since successful treatment outcomes are dependent on thorough assessments, accurate diagnoses, and comprehensive individualized treatment planning, it is no wonder that repeated rehabilitation failures and low success rates are the norm instead of the exception in the addictions field, when the latest DSM-IV-TR does not even include a diagnosis for multiple addictive behavioral disorders. Treatment clinics need to have a treatment planning system and referral network that is equipped to thoroughly assess multiple addictive and mental health disorders and related treatment needs and comprehensively provide education/ awareness, prevention strategy groups, and/ or specific addictions treatment services for individuals diagnosed with multiple addictions. Written treatment goals and objectives should be specified for each separate addiction and dimension of an individuals’ life, and the desired performance outcome or completion criteria should be specifically stated, behaviorally based (a visible activity), and measurable. New Proposed Diagnosis To assist in resolving the limited DSM-IV-TRs’ diagnostic capability, a multidimensional diagnosis of “Poly-behavioral Addiction,” is proposed for more accurate diagnosis leading to more effective treatment planning. This diagnosis encompasses the broadest category of addictive disorders that would include an individual manifesting a combination of substance abuse addictions, and other obsessively-compulsive behavioral addictive behavioral patterns to pathological gambling, religion, and/ or sex / pornography, etc.). Behavioral addictions are just as damaging - psychologically and socially as alcohol and drug abuse. They are comparative to other life-style diseases such as diabetes, hypertension, and heart disease in their behavioral manifestations, their etiologies, and their resistance to treatments. They are progressive disorders that involve obsessive thinking and compulsive behaviors. They are also characterized by a preoccupation with a continuous or periodic loss of control, and continuous irrational behavior in spite of adverse consequences. Poly-behavioral addiction would be described as a state of periodic or chronic physical, mental, emotional, cultural, sexual and/ or spiritual/ religious intoxication. These various types of intoxication are produced by repeated obsessive thoughts and compulsive practices involved in pathological relationships to any mood-altering substance, person, organization, belief system, and/ or activity. The individual has an overpowering desire, need or compulsion with the presence of a tendency to intensify their adherence to these practices, and evidence of phenomena of tolerance, abstinence and withdrawal, in which there is always physical and/ or psychic dependence on the effects of this pathological relationship. In addition, there is a 12 - month period in which an individual is pathologically involved with three or more behavioral and/ or substance use addictions simultaneously, but the criteria are not met for dependence for any one addiction in particular (Slobodzien, J., 2005). In essence, Poly-behavioral addiction is the synergistically integrated chronic dependence on multiple physiologically addictive substances and behaviors (e. g., using/ abusing substances - nicotine, alcohol, & drugs, and/or acting impulsively or obsessively compulsive in regards to gambling, food binging, sex, and/ or religion, etc.) simultaneously. Conclusion Considering the wide range of sexual behaviors in our world today, one should always take into account an individual’s ethnic, cultural, religious, and social background prior to making any clinical judgments, and it would be wise to not over-pathologize in this area of Sexual Dependency. However, since successful treatment outcomes are dependent on thorough assessments, accurate diagnoses, and comprehensive individualized treatment planning - poly-behavioral addiction needs to be identified to effectively treat the complexity of multiple behavioral and substance addictions. Since chronic lifestyle diseases and disorders such as diabetes, hypertension, alcoholism, drug and behavioral addictions cannot be cured, but only managed - how should we effectively manage poly-behavioral addiction? The Addiction Recovery Measurement System (ARMS) is proposed utilizing a multidimensional integrative assessment, treatment planning, treatment progress, and treatment outcome measurement tracking system that facilitates rapid and accurate recognition and evaluation of an individual’s comprehensive life-functioning progress dimensions. The ARMS hypothesis purports that there is a multidimensional synergistically negative resistance that individual’s develop to any one form of treatment to a single dimension of their lives, because the effects of an individual’s addiction have dynamically interacted multi-dimensionally. Having the primary focus on one dimension is insufficient. Traditionally, addiction treatment programs have failed to accommodate for the multidimensional synergistically negative effects of an individual having multiple addictions, (e. g. nicotine, alcohol, and obesity, etc.). Behavioral addictions interact negatively with each other and with strategies to improve overall functioning. They tend to encourage the use of tobacco, alcohol and other drugs, help increase violence, decrease functional capacity, and promote social isolation. Most treatment theories today involve assessing other dimensions to identify dual diagnosis or co-morbidity diagnoses, or to assess contributing factors that may play a role in the individual’s primary addiction. The ARMS’ theory proclaims that a multidimensional treatment plan must be devised addressing the possible multiple addictions identified for each one of an individual’s life dimensions in addition to developing specific goals and objectives for each dimension. Partnerships and coordination among service providers, government departments, and community organizations in providing addiction treatment programs are a necessity in addressing the multi-task solution to poly-behavioral addiction. I encourage you to support the addiction programs in America, and hope that the (ARMS) resources can assist you to personally fight the War on poly-behavioral addiction. For more info see: Poly-Behavioral Addiction and the Addictions Recovery Measurement System (ARMS) By James Slobodzien, Psy. D. CSAC at: geocities/drslbdzn/Behavioral_Addictions. html National Council on Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity P. O. Box 725544 Atlanta, GA 31139 (770) 541-9912 References American Psychiatric Association: Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, Text Revision. Washington, DC, American Psychiatric Association, 2000, p. 787 & p. 731. American Society of Addiction Medicine’s (2003), “Patient Placement Criteria for the Treatment of Substance-Related Disorders, 3rd Edition, Retrieved, June 18, 2005, from: asam. org/ Arthur Aron, Ph. D., professor, psychology, State University of New York, Stony Brook; Helen Fisher, research professor, department of anthropology, Rutgers University, New Brunswick, N. J.; Paul Sanberg, Ph. D.,professor, neuroscience, and director, Center of Excellence for Aging and Brain Repair, University of South Florida College of Medicine, Tampa; June 2005, the Journal of Neurophysiology Carnes, P. J. (1983). Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction. Minneapolis, MN: Compcare. Carnes, P. J. (1989). Contrary to Love: Helping the Sexual Addict. Minneapolis, MN: Compcare. Carnes, P. J. (1991). Don't Call it Love. Minneapolis, MN: Gentle Press Publishing. Carnes, P. J. (1997). Sexual Anorexia: Overcoming Sexual Self-hatred. Center City, MN: Hazelden. Carnes, P. J., & Delmonico, D. L. (1994). Sexual Dependency Inventory. Wickenburg, AZ: The Meadows Institute. Carnes, P. J., Delmonico, D. L., & Griffin, E. J. (2001). In the Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior. Center City, MN: Hazelden. Delmonico, D. L. (1997). Internet Sex Screening Test. [Online]. Available at: sexhelp Delmonico, D. L., Griffin, E. J., & Moriarity, J. (2001). Cybersex Unhooked: A Workbook for Breaking Free From Online Compulsive Sexual Behavior. Wickenburg, AZ: Gentle Path Press. Gorski, T. (2001), Relapse Prevention In The Managed Care Environment. GORSKI-CENAPS Web Publications. Retrieved June 20, 2005, from: tgorski Lienard, J. & Vamecq, J. (2004), Presse Med, Oct 23;33(18 Suppl):33-40. Marlatt, G. A. (1985). Relapse prevention: Theoretical rationale and overview of the model. In G. A. Marlatt & J. R. Gordon (Eds.), Relapse prevention (pp. 250-280). New York: Guilford Press. Schneider, J. P. (1994). Sex addiction: Controversy within mainstream addiction medicine, diagnosis based on the DSV-III-R and physician case histories. Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity: Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 1(1), 19-44. Slobodzien, J. (2005). Poly-behavioral Addiction and the Addictions Recovery Measurement System (ARMS), Booklocker, Inc., p. 5. James Slobodzien, Psy. D. CSAC, is a Hawaii licensed psychologist and certified substance abuse counselor who earned his doctorate in Clinical Psychology. The National Registry of Health Service Providers in Psychology credentials Dr. Slobodzien. He has over 20-years of mental health experience primarily working in the fields of alcohol/ substance abuse and behavioral addictions in medical, correctional, and judicial settings. He is an adjunct professor of Psychology and also maintains a private practice as a mental health consultant.

         
    Sex self esteem and me

     

    Hmmm, my thoughts tonight will definitely be different from most of my blogs. I have touched on so many emotions in the past and I am still feeling the need to share yet another. I have spoken on women's issues mainly, yet trying to keep men on a fair plain, mainly due to the facts and studies that more women experience self-esteem issues and jealousy monsters than men. Most of our emotions are gender friendly, except of course the ever so dreaded PMS and Menopause thingy. Although I have heard in passing that men do go through Menopause in a similar way. I will leave that for another article! (wink) If you have noticed throughout my blogs, that I have tried to remind everyone that I am speaking of both genders, even if I keep saying women. This is after all, a take off from my women's self-esteem website. I know you are all wondering, hmmm, "What is this article going to be about?" Well.. it is going to be about "SEX"! Now I know I have your attention. Is it not strange how anything that has the word, "SEX" in it, catches every ones eyes. Oh, do not even say, "Not me". It is a three letter word that has more punch than Mohhamad Ally`s fist. No offence meant there. On a more serious note, SEX is definitely a key in ones well being, or higher self esteem. When we feel sexy, we can jump the highest wall and climb the tallest mountain. Yes, I am speaking to adults on this one. After all, it is when we reach adulthood that life becomes so complicated, and all the insecurities begin to control ones mind. We also find"SEX". It is so a part of what makes a very stable beginning to a relationship, which one hopes flows into a marriage partnership. Again, please do not say, "I never had premarital SEX". My parents had it, so I know everyone else in the world did too. Okay, I will maybe let 10 people get away with it. I am trying to incorporate self-esteem with relationships because a lot of what goes on between a man and a woman will trigger off ones deep inner emotions such as self esteem. I have asked a few people of both genders, this question: "Why do people eventually forget what they have at home?" Is it because one or both have stopped trying to impress the other? Hmmm. Why would one stop trying to look good for their mate? Do you want your mate to fantasize of someone else in order to have SEX? (harsh, I know, but it is a truth) Do you talk to you mate in bed? Why not? After and during SEX, is the best time to talk to each other. Life is sweet after SEX and no one wants to get off the "Good feeling plateau". The answers I received were shrugged shoulders to start with, which is really sad. It was more like, "DUH". One man actually was excited to give his answer, "Damn, I agree". That was about it. Again I say, "Sad"! Men and Women need to learn how to talk. I mean talk about their true grit feelings. Example: "Baby, am I sexy enough for you, I mean is there anything I can do to make you want me more?" Or if you desires something different from yours partner in SEX, you should be able to ask it without the fear of hurting the others feelings. Or having to calm them down from an, "Oh, so you don't like me the way I am?"!!! We all fall into a first impulse scenario, especially if we have even the slightest insecurity. SEX is suppose to be fun and open and raw. Women, listen to me now, your man loves your body, he really does. SEX is non judgemental. That's what I like about it. Passion through SEX is the most natural emotion that we have been blessed with. Why? It is because it is involving true emotion, there is no room for worry or before thoughts, which I call fabricated emotions. Once we have turned the wheels of the SEX engine, we are good to go. It is pure and clearly set. Our bodies become our maps to nothing but good feelings and becoming one with our partner. Our partner is no more thinking of a movie he saw, or the perfect person that crossed their paths, than they are about work the next day. It is just the two of you, it is purely sweet SEX. We allow ourselves through our weaknesses to put up walls that keep us from opening our self to our partner. We know we crave them to become one with us, to inhale their oh so sweet body smells, and to feel the sexual adrenaline flow through our veins. Is that not enough to break down the walls of worry and insecurities? Many partners do not even know whats going on when their partners are in this stage of detachment. They will be tempted to take it as a rejection. We all know that once we feel rejected, we tend to not ask questions, thus closing the doors. SEX is totally the last thing on your mind when you feel that, resulting in both parties now setting up walls. What I am saying here is that it is soooo important to communicate with your partner. If you do not feel sexy or you just think maybe you smell bad, (shush), you are committed to tell them. When one knows that the other is not into SEX because they are feeling low about themselves, the norm will actually try very hard to break down those damn insecurity walls. That's where TRUST and SEX are joined. With out those two friends, there is noooo orgasms. I know everyone luvz those. To get orgasms you must engage in SEX. There is no need for words, or I dids, or I did not`s. It is just REAL FEELINGS between two people. Can you actually say after SEX with your partner, that you feel low or insecure? NOPE!..well HELLO then, maybe it is time to look at SEX as not just a perk in a relationship. Time to look at SEX as an answer to bringing your lows to highs. People pay good money for therapists, and ruin their bodies taking drugs to get those feelings. WHY, when we have the cure right in front of us? And with a willing partner at your feet to do your bidding? Need I say more? It's probably the first thing one shuts down when they feel their self esteem taking the wrong turn. Well then in that case, you need to address it immediately and grab your partner and just have SEX. Don`t laugh, I am serious. Tease each other, make each other laugh. It will take one second of body play to get the veins filled with hot blood, that triggers off your sexual appetite, then it is the big "O" from there! Oh and guess what, no more low self esteem feelings. WOOT!!! One`s self-esteem rises and falls like waves! Once it hits bottom it is time for emotional housecleaning and much needed SEX!

         
    Sex as habit

     

    If you feel that your sex life became just another habit, sexologists advice to change your way of thinking. Concentrate on intimacy not only on actual intercourse, because these are different things. You can’t expect that your partner’s desire will remain the same as when you just started your relationship without applying any efforts to keep in high. Everyday routine, lack of romance, can cause the fading away of any desire. When a person complains that he got tired of or fed up with sex with his/her partner, saying that he/she knows every inch of his/her body, the true reason for that can be the lack of communication between the two of them. Most probably they haven’t had an open conversation for ages. But you should always keep in mind that communication is vital for your sex life, as you have to permanently update your knowledge of your partner’s sexuality. Our sexuality doesn’t remain the same, it changes. Never stop asking your partner about his/her sexual fantasies, as it can easily turn out that you have no idea of your lover’s needs and wishes. A great number of problems in their sex lives is a characteristic trait of modern business women. After a hard work day they simply ignore their partners and their sex life doesn’t take a leading place in the list of their priorities, which is totally wrong. Another misconception is that only everyday sex can keep your feelings fresh and help to maintain sexual interest towards each other. But it’s not quantity, but emotional openness of both partners can preserve your sexual desire. Talk with your partner about your feelings, about the happy days you had together in the past. When you are in a long term relationship it’s necessary to surprise your partner from time to time. Remember the joke “this man is married for a long time, and he prefers to have sex lying on his right body side. Wonder why? Because it’s the most comfortable position to watch TV and have sex simultaneously.” Therefore, never let anything distract you from love making process. This kills lust. Provoke and challenge one another for changes. For instance, if you think that he grew fat and that is the reason of your lack of desire, buy him an exercise bicycle. Or you can buy her 2 sizes smaller lingerie, so that she has the reason to loose couple of pounds. The main rule here is not to keep your dissatisfaction inside. Share your complaints with your partner. If you don’t do that, the things will only get worse. You have to apply all your skills to enrich your sex life. Turn on your imagination, creativity, all means and resources will do. The more extravagant - the better. And don’t forget about sexy lingerie by the way. Role play is also a great way to skip the routine and refresh your sexual life. Today you can play a secretary, for example, tomorrow turn into a school girl or a sexy nurse. Be different every day and never let your sexual life turn into routine duty.

         
    Sex dolls

     

    : Shelves of sex-shops and pages of sex-catalogues abound in love-girlfriends. Here you will find anything to any taste: tall and svelte, lush and vigorous, cold and curly blondes or temperamental and ardent swarthy brunettes with chocolate skin. Some of them look at their lovers with big radiant eyes; the others look blank and shut their eyes with pleasure lying in bed next to you. You can stroke either haired pubis or passionately kiss virginally bare one. The doll seductively opens her mouth and literally absorbs your penis. At the same time she can smack her tongue licking your dick and stimulate it with her mouth. She squeezes her vagina tightly holding your “frolicsome fellow” and stimulating it with the help of rhythmic vibrations. Touch her with your hand or tongue and you will feel her tender and velvet skin, warm and soft breasts and hot teats. All this is so alluring that tempts to enjoy and luxuriate with her again and again. However not only you but your “date” is also notably agitated. Her vagina has become wet and slippery; she passionately groans and whispers in you ear all her desires and sensations. All these illusions are results of technical explorations and inventions. The engine creates unimaginable vibration and pomp provides for magnetic suction. Elasticity and warmth of vagina and breasts can be compared to small cushions filled with warm water, and vagina succulence – to sweet peach. Some dolls’ breasts can be inflated separately thus giving a man the possibility to regulate their size and thickness as well as to choose between resilient and soft breasts. Sweet sounds pronounced by dolls are nothing but in-built disc or tape. They are analogues to those built in child’s dolls though differing in vocabulary and timbre. Majority of latex dolls are produced in Germany and other west European countries. They have the call of exquisite connoisseurs. Having once experimented with such a sex toy, its admirers consider sex-doll a partner for longer sexual relations. The doll will forgive you some careless treatment with her. Moreover her genitals are easily cleaned. Anus and vagina can be turned inside out or packed and later thoroughly bathed. Cheap sex-dolls are to the contrary difficult to clean. It is recommended to use condoms and much lubricant (Vaseline, for instance) while making love with such a doll, in order to impart more or less natural coloring and feelings to your relations.

         
    Sex or gender

     

    "One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman." Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex (1949) In nature, male and female are distinct. She-elephants are gregarious, he-elephants solitary. Male zebra finches are loquacious - the females mute. Female green spoon worms are 200,000 times larger than their male mates. These striking differences are biological - yet they lead to differentiation in social roles and skill acquisition. Alan Pease, author of a book titled "Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps", believes that women are spatially-challenged compared to men. The British firm, Admiral Insurance, conducted a study of half a million claims. They found that "women were almost twice as likely as men to have a collision in a car park, 23 percent more likely to hit a stationary car, and 15 percent more likely to reverse into another vehicle" (Reuters). Yet gender "differences" are often the outcomes of bad scholarship. Consider Admiral insurance's data. As Britain's Automobile Association (AA) correctly pointed out - women drivers tend to make more short journeys around towns and shopping centers and these involve frequent parking. Hence their ubiquity in certain kinds of claims. Regarding women's alleged spatial deficiency, in Britain, girls have been outperforming boys in scholastic aptitude tests - including geometry and maths - since 1988. In an Op-Ed published by the New York Times on January 23, 2005, Olivia Judson cited this example "Beliefs that men are intrinsically better at this or that have repeatedly led to discrimination and prejudice, and then they've been proved to be nonsense. Women were thought not to be world-class musicians. But when American symphony orchestras introduced blind auditions in the 1970's - the musician plays behind a screen so that his or her gender is invisible to those listening - the number of women offered jobs in professional orchestras increased. Similarly, in science, studies of the ways that grant applications are evaluated have shown that women are more likely to get financing when those reading the applications do not know the sex of the applicant." On the other wing of the divide, Anthony Clare, a British psychiatrist and author of "On Men" wrote: "At the beginning of the 21st century it is difficult to avoid the conclusion that men are in serious trouble. Throughout the world, developed and developing, antisocial behavior is essentially male. Violence, sexual abuse of children, illicit drug use, alcohol misuse, gambling, all are overwhelmingly male activities. The courts and prisons bulge with men. When it comes to aggression, delinquent behavior, risk taking and social mayhem, men win gold." Men also mature later, die earlier, are more susceptible to infections and most types of cancer, are more likely to be dyslexic, to suffer from a host of mental health disorders, such as Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), and to commit suicide. In her book, "Stiffed: The Betrayal of the American Man", Susan Faludi describes a crisis of masculinity following the breakdown of manhood models and work and family structures in the last five decades. In the film "Boys don't Cry", a teenage girl binds her breasts and acts the male in a caricatural relish of stereotypes of virility. Being a man is merely a state of mind, the movie implies. But what does it really mean to be a "male" or a "female"? Are gender identity and sexual preferences genetically determined? Can they be reduced to one's sex? Or are they amalgams of biological, social, and psychological factors in constant interaction? Are they immutable lifelong features or dynamically evolving frames of self-reference? In the aforementioned New York Times Op-Ed, Olivia Judson opines: "Many sex differences are not, therefore, the result of his having one gene while she has another. Rather, they are attributable to the way particular genes behave when they find themselves in him instead of her. The magnificent difference between male and female green spoon worms, for example, has nothing to do with their having different genes: each green spoon worm larva could go either way. Which sex it becomes depends on whether it meets a female during its first three weeks of life. If it meets a female, it becomes male and prepares to regurgitate; if it doesn't, it becomes female and settles into a crack on the sea floor." Yet, certain traits attributed to one's sex are surely better accounted for by the demands of one's environment, by cultural factors, the process of socialization, gender roles, and what George Devereux called "ethnopsychiatry" in "Basic Problems of Ethnopsychiatry" (University of Chicago Press, 1980). He suggested to divide the unconscious into the id (the part that was always instinctual and unconscious) and the "ethnic unconscious" (repressed material that was once conscious). The latter is mostly molded by prevailing cultural mores and includes all our defense mechanisms and most of the superego. So, how can we tell whether our sexual role is mostly in our blood or in our brains? The scrutiny of borderline cases of human sexuality - notably the transgendered or intersexed - can yield clues as to the distribution and relative weights of biological, social, and psychological determinants of gender identity formation. The results of a study conducted by Uwe Hartmann, Hinnerk Becker, and Claudia Rueffer-Hesse in 1997 and titled "Self and Gender: Narcissistic Pathology and Personality Factors in Gender Dysphoric Patients", published in the "International Journal of Transgenderism", "indicate significant psychopathological aspects and narcissistic dysregulation in a substantial proportion of patients." Are these "psychopathological aspects" merely reactions to underlying physiological realities and changes? Could social ostracism and labeling have induced them in the "patients"? The authors conclude: "The cumulative evidence of our study ... is consistent with the view that gender dysphoria is a disorder of the sense of self as has been proposed by Beitel (1985) or Pfдfflin (1993). The central problem in our patients is about identity and the self in general and the transsexual wish seems to be an attempt at reassuring and stabilizing the self-coherence which in turn can lead to a further destabilization if the self is already too fragile. In this view the body is instrumentalized to create a sense of identity and the splitting symbolized in the hiatus between the rejected body-self and other parts of the self is more between good and bad objects than between masculine and feminine." Freud, Kraft-Ebbing, and Fliess suggested that we are all bisexual to a certain degree. As early as 1910, Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld argued, in Berlin, that absolute genders are "abstractions, invented extremes". The consensus today is that one's sexuality is, mostly, a psychological construct which reflects gender role orientation. Joanne Meyerowitz, a professor of history at Indiana University and the editor of The Journal of American History observes, in her recently published tome, "How Sex Changed: A History of Transsexuality in the United States", that the very meaning of masculinity and femininity is in constant flux. Transgender activists, says Meyerowitz, insist that gender and sexuality represent "distinct analytical categories". The New York Times wrote in its review of the book: "Some male-to-female transsexuals have sex with men and call themselves homosexuals. Some female-to-male transsexuals have sex with women and call themselves lesbians. Some transsexuals call themselves asexual." So, it is all in the mind, you see. This would be taking it too far. A large body of scientific evidence points to the genetic and biological underpinnings of sexual behavior and preferences. The German science magazine, "Geo", reported recently that the males of the fruit fly "drosophila melanogaster" switched from heterosexuality to homosexuality as the temperature in the lab was increased from 19 to 30 degrees Celsius. They reverted to chasing females as it was lowered. The brain structures of homosexual sheep are different to those of straight sheep, a study conducted recently by the Oregon Health & Science University and the U. S. Department of Agriculture Sheep Experiment Station in Dubois, Idaho, revealed. Similar differences were found between gay men and straight ones in 1995 in Holland and elsewhere. The preoptic area of the hypothalamus was larger in heterosexual men than in both homosexual men and straight women. According an article, titled "When Sexual Development Goes Awry", by Suzanne Miller, published in the September 2000 issue of the "World and I", various medical conditions give rise to sexual ambiguity. Congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH), involving excessive androgen production by the adrenal cortex, results in mixed genitalia. A person with the complete androgen insensitivity syndrome (AIS) has a vagina, external female genitalia and functioning, androgen-producing, testes - but no uterus or fallopian tubes. People with the rare 5-alpha reductase deficiency syndrome are born with ambiguous genitalia. They appear at first to be girls. At puberty, such a person develops testicles and his clitoris swells and becomes a penis. Hermaphrodites possess both ovaries and testicles (both, in most cases, rather undeveloped). Sometimes the ovaries and testicles are combined into a chimera called ovotestis. Most of these individuals have the chromosomal composition of a woman together with traces of the Y, male, chromosome. All hermaphrodites have a sizable penis, though rarely generate sperm. Some hermaphrodites develop breasts during puberty and menstruate. Very few even get pregnant and give birth. Anne Fausto-Sterling, a developmental geneticist, professor of medical science at Brown University, and author of "Sexing the Body", postulated, in 1993, a continuum of 5 sexes to supplant the current dimorphism: males, merms (male pseudohermaphrodites), herms (true hermaphrodites), ferms (female pseudohermaphrodites), and females. Intersexuality (hermpahroditism) is a natural human state. We are all conceived with the potential to develop into either sex. The embryonic developmental default is female. A series of triggers during the first weeks of pregnancy places the fetus on the path to maleness. In rare cases, some women have a male's genetic makeup (XY chromosomes) and vice versa. But, in the vast majority of cases, one of the sexes is clearly selected. Relics of the stifled sex remain, though. Women have the clitoris as a kind of symbolic penis. Men have breasts (mammary glands) and nipples. The Encyclopedia Britannica 2003 edition describes the formation of ovaries and testes thus: "In the young embryo a pair of gonads develop that are indifferent or neutral, showing no indication whether they are destined to develop into testes or ovaries. There are also two different duct systems, one of which can develop into the female system of oviducts and related apparatus and the other into the male sperm duct system. As development of the embryo proceeds, either the male or the female reproductive tissue differentiates in the originally neutral gonad of the mammal." Yet, sexual preferences, genitalia and even secondary sex characteristics, such as facial and pubic hair are first order phenomena. Can genetics and biology account for male and female behavior patterns and social interactions ("gender identity")? Can the multi-tiered complexity and richness of human masculinity and femininity arise from simpler, deterministic, building blocks? Sociobiologists would have us think so. For instance: the fact that we are mammals is astonishingly often overlooked. Most mammalian families are composed of mother and offspring. Males are peripatetic absentees. Arguably, high rates of divorce and birth out of wedlock coupled with rising promiscuity merely reinstate this natural "default mode", observes Lionel Tiger, a professor of anthropology at Rutgers University in New Jersey. That three quarters of all divorces are initiated by women tends to support this view. Furthermore, gender identity is determined during gestation, claim some scholars. Milton Diamond of the University of Hawaii and Dr. Keith Sigmundson, a practicing psychiatrist, studied the much-celebrated John/Joan case. An accidentally castrated normal male was surgically modified to look female, and raised as a girl but to no avail. He reverted to being a male at puberty. His gender identity seems to have been inborn (assuming he was not subjected to conflicting cues from his human environment). The case is extensively described in John Colapinto's tome "As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl". HealthScoutNews cited a study published in the November 2002 issue of "Child Development". The researchers, from City University of London, found that the level of maternal testosterone during pregnancy affects the behavior of neonatal girls and renders it more masculine. "High testosterone" girls "enjoy activities typically considered male behavior, like playing with trucks or guns". Boys' behavior remains unaltered, according to the study. Yet, other scholars, like John Money, insist that newborns are a "blank slate" as far as their gender identity is concerned. This is also the prevailing view. Gender and sex-role identities, we are taught, are fully formed in a process of socialization which ends by the third year of life. The Encyclopedia Britannica 2003 edition sums it up thus: "Like an individual's concept of his or her sex role, gender identity develops by means of parental example, social reinforcement, and language. Parents teach sex-appropriate behavior to their children from an early age, and this behavior is reinforced as the child grows older and enters a wider social world. As the child acquires language, he also learns very early the distinction between "he" and "she" and understands which pertains to him - or herself." So, which is it - nature or nurture? There is no disputing the fact that our sexual physiology and, in all probability, our sexual preferences are determined in the womb. Men and women are different - physiologically and, as a result, also psychologically. Society, through its agents - foremost amongst which are family, peers, and teachers - represses or encourages these genetic propensities. It does so by propagating "gender roles" - gender-specific lists of alleged traits, permissible behavior patterns, and prescriptive morals and norms. Our "gender identity" or "sex role" is shorthand for the way we make use of our natural genotypic-phenotypic endowments in conformity with social-cultural "gender roles". Inevitably as the composition and bias of these lists change, so does the meaning of being "male" or "female". Gender roles are constantly redefined by tectonic shifts in the definition and functioning of basic social units, such as the nuclear family and the workplace. The cross-fertilization of gender-related cultural memes renders "masculinity" and "femininity" fluid concepts. One's sex equals one's bodily equipment, an objective, finite, and, usually, immutable inventory. But our endowments can be put to many uses, in different cognitive and affective contexts, and subject to varying exegetic frameworks. As opposed to "sex" - "gender" is, therefore, a socio-cultural narrative. Both heterosexual and homosexual men ejaculate. Both straight and lesbian women climax. What distinguishes them from each other are subjective introjects of socio-cultural conventions, not objective, immutable "facts". In "The New Gender Wars", published in the November/December 2000 issue of "Psychology Today", Sarah Blustain sums up the "bio-social" model proposed by Mice Eagly, a professor of psychology at Northwestern University and a former student of his, Wendy Wood, now a professor at the Texas A&M University: "Like (the evolutionary psychologists), Eagly and Wood reject social constructionist notions that all gender differences are created by culture. But to the question of where they come from, they answer differently: not our genes but our roles in society. This narrative focuses on how societies respond to the basic biological differences - men's strength and women's reproductive capabilities - and how they encourage men and women to follow certain patterns. 'If you're spending a lot of time nursing your kid', explains Wood, 'then you don't have the opportunity to devote large amounts of time to developing specialized skills and engaging tasks outside of the home'. And, adds Eagly, 'if women are charged with caring for infants, what happens is that women are more nurturing. Societies have to make the adult system work [so] socialization of girls is arranged to give them experience in nurturing'. According to this interpretation, as the environment changes, so will the range and texture of gender differences. At a time in Western countries when female reproduction is extremely low, nursing is totally optional, childcare alternatives are many, and mechanization lessens the importance of male size and strength, women are no longer restricted as much by their smaller size and by child-bearing. That means, argue Eagly and Wood, that role structures for men and women will change and, not surprisingly, the way we socialize people in these new roles will change too. (Indeed, says Wood, 'sex differences seem to be reduced in societies where men and women have similar status,' she says. If you're looking to live in more gender-neutral environment, try Scandinavia.)"

         
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    How To Turn A Woman On, Satisfy Her In A Big Way, And Get Her To Do The Things You've Always Wanted To begin with, I want to remind you of the differences between how men and women approach and experience sex. To set the stage, I first want to talk about “experience.” As humans, we use our five primary senses to take in information about the world. This is called “Perception.” Most of this happens on an UNCONSCIOUS level. We then take what we get from our senses and we process this information. We compare it to what we’ve experienced before, we classify it, we imagine it in different ways, and we have UNCONSCIOUS reactions to it. Next, we make decisions about what we’re going to do with what we just experienced. Again, these are mostly UNCONSCIOUS. Finally, we take action on what we decided to do. You guessed it... again, mostly unconsciously. This description is oversimplified, but I think it’s a useful model to work with here. Basically, I believe that men and women go through these four stages a little differently. And when it comes to sex, I believe that they go through them much differently. I mention this because most people deal with other people the way that they want to be dealt with. They communicate in ways that make sense to themselves. They usually assume that they know what’s best for others without checking first. This only makes sense. Most people don’t walk around saying to themselves “Hmmm, I wonder if Sarah tastes the same thing as I do when she drinks coffee?” and “I wonder if water tastes exactly the same to her... or if it’s just slightly different...” Most people have asked these questions once or twice in life, but they usually stop asking once they decide that most people have the same experiences as they do when they drink coffee, etc. Here’s the deal: When it comes to most ‘gross’ experiences (meaning common level) like getting hit with a baseball, tasting salt, or seeing a color, we as humans usually have pretty similar experiences. But when it comes to ‘subtle’ experiences (meaning less extreme, and in this context, also more complex) people, and especially different genders, have vastly different experiences. For instance, if you show a man and a woman a picture of a Victoria’s Secret catalogue, the man will usually notice all of the women, while the woman will notice the clothing, including the colors and the details. Finally, the order or sequence of experiences and thoughts have a major role in the responses that men and women demonstrate. In the area of sex, men are usually pretty simple: See hot woman, get turned on and want sex. All in about 1-3 seconds. A man can be outside working on his car and see a beautiful woman out of the corner of his eye, and instantly be in the mood. On the other hand, women are a bit more complex. Even if a woman sees a handsome man, she will RARELY get sexually turned on. The first thing that women experience when they SEE an attractive man is usually more of a curiosity or intrigue... a wanting to know more. If a man smiles at a woman, the woman usually interprets the smile as “Hi, you look nice and friendly.” If a woman smiles at a man, the man usually interprets the smile as “I’m interested in sex.” This one difference causes many first meetings to go the wrong way. Here’s the deal: In general, it takes women longer to get in ‘The Mood’ for sex, and it happens differently than it does for men. As I talk about sex and how to do it better, you need to keep this in mind. Some of the things I’m going to tell you might sound like just ‘interesting’ ideas, or unusual things to do. Not so. While they may be interesting and unusual, they are all specifically to appeal to the female mind and mating preferences. 50,000 years ago women had to figure out some way to determine if a man was going to be a good provider and a loyal mate. I believe that the concept of ‘Romance’ was that way. If a man was really interested, he would go through some demonstrations of his devotion... and be willing to wait for sex. And so it goes. Women love things like ‘taking your time’, ‘anticipation’, ‘sensory rich experiences’, ‘romantic talk’ and ‘foreplay.’ I know, I know. We all want a woman that gets turned on by just seeing your unshaven face and dirty hair in the morning. But these are the cards we were dealt, and we might as well learn how to play them in this lifetime. Onward. So I just mentioned a bunch of ideas. Let’s tie them together. As far as the senses go: In general, women get turned on by a few major categories of things: 1. Voice tone, sensual (not sexual) language, and vivid descriptions. Women love to hear a sexy voice describing ideas, feelings, and scenarios in painful detail. 2. A wide range of different touching, kissing, stroking, caressing, and cuddling. 3. Smells and smelling. Women love great cologne. And women love to be smelled. 4. Tastes. Women love to be fed all kinds of wonderful things like Strawberries, chocolate, and champagne. Did you notice anything missing from the list? I left out SIGHT on my list. Why? Well, women don’t get turned on as much by sight as they do by other senses. Men are usually more turned on by visuals than by the other four senses combined. Women are turned on more by the others. It’s true that what you look like can PREVENT you from being attractive due to not taking care of yourself, not being her ‘type’ or whatever. But I believe (and have proven to myself over and over) that if you pave the way correctly, you can overcome looks and get a woman VERY sexually stimulated by using her other senses and her imagination. Next I talked about how women notice details. Women notice subtle things. If you rub a woman’s hand, she’ll feel warm and friendly toward you. If you very very gently and slowly run the tips of your fingers over her hand, she will begin to get aroused (other conditions have to be right, of course). If you kiss a woman on the lips and stick your tongue down her throat, she’ll probably be disgusted. But if you kiss her gently... then slowly pull away and look into her eyes... then kiss her again slowly and gently... you’ll start a fire inside of her that will build (if you do everything else correctly as well). I also mentioned romance. To me, romance is simply demonstrating to a woman that this whole encounter and ‘relationship’ with her is meaningful. It’s a way of saying “I want to create a great experience for you” to her. If you play up the romance too much, you’ll push a button inside of a woman called “He loves me and wants to marry me.” So be careful. I recommend sticking to the kinds of romance that involve the senses, and not the kind that involve money, gifts, and love letters. There’s nothing wrong with these... it’s just that they lead to the M word. If you want a wife, great. If not, use care and stick to the senses. Anticipation I believe that anticipation, excitement, and tension are some of the biggest turn-ons that a woman can feel. Women LOVE to wonder what’s coming next. They LOVE to be surprised. They LOVE to be waiting on the edge of their seats. Here are a few ways to do it: 1. Say “I have a surprise for you.” Then say “But I’m not going to give it to you yet... it’s for later.” The surprise can be anything from a piece of chocolate to some melon-scented massage oil that you bought to rub her shoulders. It doesn’t matter. The key is to pique her curiosity and make her want to know what it is. 2. Put a blindfold on her. Women LOVE to be blindfolded! Don’t ask, just do it. Go grab a scarf out of your closet (silk if you have it) and put it on her. Remember, women are turned on more by their other senses anyway. Turning their vision off heightens their other senses and makes them even more responsive. 3. When you’re doing something that’s turning her on, STOP. This seems counter-intuitive, but it’s the promise land. Guys like to find what feels good and KEEP DOING IT BABY. Women like to have what feels good taken away... so they can feel some more anticipation! Do you get it? Come up with your own ways to build anticipation. Tell her a story about someone that felt anticipation. Tell her you’re feeling it. Whatever. Just make her anticipate what’s coming next. Stimulating Her Senses So how do you best stimulate these other four senses in a way that will turn her on? Now that’s a GREAT question. 1. Touch her very very gently and slowly. Use the very tips of your fingers. Run them over her arms, neck, shoulders, lips, hands, legs, feet... everywhere. If you avoid her breasts, crotch, and ass, you’ll even get her more turned on for later (Remember anticipation? It will drive her crazy... “When is he going to touch my tits?”). 2. Kiss her sensually. Let the first kiss be very light... almost a brush. Then wait (anticipation). Kiss her 100 times on the neck and shoulders. Suck on her lips gently. Lick her just a tad on the neck, shoulders, and lips. Think eating an ice-cream cone, then tone it back a bit. Like you’re tasting her a little each time. 3. Feed her little bits of things that are sexy. Try strawberries, chocolate, champagne. Also, go out and get yourself some of that ‘Kama Sutra Oil’ at the adult store. The flavored kind not only tastes good, it HEATS UP if you put it on and breathe on it. Nice. 4. Smell her. Smell her neck and shoulders for about 5-10 minutes STRAIGHT. No kissing. No licking. Just smelling for 5-10 minutes. Gently run your nose and lips over her shoulders and neck smelling her. Say “Mmmmm... you smell good. I’m just going to smell you for awhile.” You’re going to love how she reacts to this. 5. Talk sexy to her. Men like to hear “I want it harder big boy”... women like to hear “Your lips feel so soft and sexy. I love the way your lower lip feels when I kiss it... And I could just kiss you for hours... it feels so nice.” Women love to hear about the DETAILS, remember? 6. Tell her stories, and describe what you’re going to do to her. If she’s getting turned on, take a few minutes to whisper in her ear exactly what you’re going to do to her. “You know what I’m going to do next? First, I’m going to slowly and gently kiss your shoulders... and then work my way up to your neck... smelling your sexy perfume... mmm... you smell soooo good... then, I’m going to kiss you deeply...” Get it? Also tell her what feels good in the same detailed way. Use a soft, slow, deep tone of voice.

         
    Sex secrets exposed common questions about your penis

     

    What is the average size of the penis and what are the extremes? According to some experts, the average size is 5.9 inches and 90% of all penises are between 5.1 inches and 7 inches. The world records for a fully functional penises are as follows. On the low end it is 0.6 inches. On the high end it is a whooping 11.7 inches. Can my penis size be increased? Yes. There are two widely known and practiced surgical procedures to increase penis size-- the Bihari Procedure, and Fat Injection. The Bihari Procedure consists of cutting loose the ligament that attaches the base of the penis to the body. This gives an adverage of between one-half and two inches of increased over all length to the penis. However, because the penis is no longer secured to the persons body an erection will no longer point strait up. Fat Injection consists of removing fat from the backs of the patients thighs and injecting it into the body of the penis to make the penis girth larger (wideness). In most cases the body rejects a fairly large portion of the fat injection. This procedure may need to be repeated several times and each operation carries with it a severe risk of infection. I strongly disagree with this procedure. What is circumcision and why is it done? Male circumcision is the surgical removal of the foreskin from the penis. When performed in a hospital, it is usually done very shortly after birth by a acting doctor or midwife. Circumcisions are also given to Jewish boys by a mohel in a ceremony eight days after birth. Some Islamic boys are circumcised when they are older, around age 12 (ouch). The majority of American boys are circumcised as it is a common practice in this day and age. The more common reasons for circumcision include: better hygiene, "normal" or "better" appearance, and "many believe his penis should look just like his father's." Some of the more common reasons against circumcision include: it is no longer necessary for hygienic reasons; it is a very painful procedure, barbaric practice; possibility of infection or surgical error; "normal" or "better" appearance; "his penis should look like his father's.", and "much greater sensitivity of uncircumcised penis." I hope this clears up some common misconceptions about the penis.

         
     
         
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